Basically when men watch porn, they make their women feel like they're not enough to keep them satisfied... and that they'll never be good enough. That can destroy a perfectly good woman's self esteem.
When you are fantasizing about the woman on the screen, in you're mind you are there with her...and thats as bad as cheating. If you are committed to someone, why even bother wasting her time when you obviously don't see her as girl of choice for you?
Especially when guys say they don't watch porn, and the girl finds out later he's been lying all along, that destroys all trust she ever had in him, and it can be impossible to rebuild.
The content of porn completely ignores the importance of love, and undermines the significance of a meaningful relationship.
Not only does it destroy relationships, but it also demoralizes women in general, treating them as mere sexual object for male gratification as compared to the complex, beautiful creatures with tons more to offer that they really are.
Children exposed to porn learn these unhealthy scenarios as the normal way that grown men and women interact. This raises generations with a skewed idea of the roles of men and women. It tells young girls that they are only worth as much as how they look, and it teaches boys that a girls main job is to please him sexually, as compared to being a life partner.
In no way do I think sex is a bad thing....between two loving partners, it can be the most beautiful and fulfilling thing in the world. What I advocate is the protection and proliferation of these unions,and finding joy with the partner you are committed to. Or else, why bother? And if nobody bothers, we will see a decline in every moral and healthy aspect of society.
